I feel like I was pretty well-prepared, especially considering that the weekend and beginning of the week turned pretty chaotic (see number 3). But in all my worrying about getting things ready for Stefano, I kinda forgot that I'd be too busy to take care of myself too.
1) Cook (or go out) before the surgery so you have leftovers in the house. Lots of variety is good-- sick people can be so darned picky about what they feel like eating! We have stuff to make dinner, but I don't have the energy to pull stuff out of the freezer. And I couldn't run out for little things the day of his surgery.
2) Do laundry. Being able to quickly grab your favorite comfy shirt out of the closet is really nice when you're rushed for time. Stefano has plenty of clothes, but all he needs is pajamas.
3) Don't let your closest in-town friend / support network get sick. Ok, this really isn't in anyone's control. Christine was sick all weekend, in the hospital Sunday, her mom flew in to take care of her, and ended up having emergency surgery Tuesday. Poor thing.
4) Don't waste time blogging. Wait. This is keeping me sane. Never mind.
5) Have plenty of ice. We usually only keep our ice bin half full since we don't use that much, but now we're going through a lot, between lots of ice water and ice packs. Plus I keep giving Molly ice cubes to keep her busy. See number 6.
6) Stock up on dog treats and toys. She's getting on our nerves today and I just want her to go play on her own! No, Molly, I don't have time to hold your slimy toy so you can tug on it. Nor do I want to.
All-in-all though, we're doing well. Stefano was awake for most of the afternoon playing video games, and wore himself out, so he's taking a nap. He actually seems to be sleeping deeply (I went in to pull the ice pack off his face), something he couldn't do last night or this morning.